倾听的力量 ted演讲稿

listening is an active skill. whereas hearing is passive, listening is something that we have to work at. it's a

relationship with sound. and yet it's a skill that none of us are taught. for example, have you ever considered that there are listening positions, places you can listen from?

here are two of them. reductive listening is listening "for." it reduces

everything down to what's relevant and it discards everything that's not relevant. men typically listen reductively. so he's saying, "i've got this problem.

" he's saying, "here's your solution. thanks very much. next.

" that's the way we talk, right guys? expansive listening, on the other hand, is listening "with," not listening "for." it's got no destination in mind.

it's just enjoying the journey. women typically listen expansively. if you look at these two, eye contact, facing each other,

possibly both talking at the same time. men, if you get nothing else out of this talk, practice expansive listening, and you can transform your relationships.

认真倾听是一种主动技能。普通地听是被动的，而倾听却是要花功夫的。倾听是处理声音和声音之间的关系。

它也是一种与生俱来的能力。例如，您是否曾经考虑过以不同的姿势聆听以接收声音？看以下两个例子。

删减性的倾听是有“选择”的听。它只会关注你想知道的，而忽略不重要的内容。男人通常会删减性的倾听。

比如一个人说：“我有个问题。”另一个人说：

“这是你的答案。多谢。下一位。

”这就是我们谈话的方式，对吧，男士们？ 而另外一种，扩展性的倾听是“无目的”，“无选择”的。听。你没有明确的目标。你只是喜欢听的过程。

女人通常会扩展性的倾听。看看这两个人，面对面，保持眼神交流，也许他们都在同时说话。男人们，如果你觉得无聊的话，试着多听几句，这样可以改善你们的关系。

the first really big health issue is a word that murray schafer coined: "schizophonia." it's a dislocation between what you see and what you hear.

so, we're inviting into our lives the voices of people who are not present with us. i think there's something deeply unhealthy about living all the time in schizophonia. the second problem that ***es with

headphone abuse is ***pression. we squash music to fit it into our pocket and there is a cost attached to this. listen to this -- this is an un***pressed piece of music.

and now the

same piece of music with 98% of the data removed. i do hope that some of you at least can hear the difference between those two. there is a cost of ***pression.

it makes you tired and irritable to have to make up all of that data. you're having to imagine it. it's not good for you in the long run.

the third problem with headphones is this: deafness.

第一大严重的健康问题，根据murray schafer的话说，就是“幻听”。这是一种混乱，使你看到和听到的东西不一样。因此，在我们的生活中，有更多不在我们身边的人发出声音。

我认为时时处于“幻听”中对健康十分不利。耳机滥用的第二个问题是压缩。我们把**压缩到口袋里，但要付出代价。

听这个。这是未压缩的**。同样的段落，但信息少了98%。我希望至少有些人能听到这种不同。

这就是压缩**的代价。为了弥补丢失的信息，你很容易变得疲倦和烦躁。你需要通过想象来弥补这一差距。

长期下去，会对健康不利。滥用耳机的第三个问题是耳聋。

let's move away from bad sound and look at some friends that i urge you to seek out. wwb: wind, water, birds -- stochastic natural sounds ***posed of lots of individual random events, all of it very healthy, all of it sound that we evolved to over the years.

seek those sounds out; they're good for you and so is this. silence is beautiful. the elizabethans described language as decorated silence.

i urge you to move away from silence with intention and to design soundscapes just like works of art. have a foreground, a background, all in beautiful proportion. it's fun to get into designing with sound.

if you can't do it yourself, get a professional to do it for you. sound design is the future, and i think it's the way we're going to change the way the world sounds.

我们别说噪音了。让我们谈谈你应该找的好朋友。风水鸟：风，水，鸟，大自然的声音。

它们都是由不同的细节组成的，这些细节对健康非常有益，因为它们是我们在进化过程中所伴随的声音。寻找这些声音对你有好处。还有这个。

安静是美好的。古人常把语言比作经过修饰的安静。我建议你刻意远离安静，设计出像艺术品一样有形象感的声音。

有前景，有背景，有比例。设计声音很有趣。如果你自己做不到，你可以向专业人士求助。声音设计是未来，也是让世界变得美好的一种方式。

and four modalities where you need to take some action and get involved. first of all, listen consciously. i hope that after this talk you'll be doing that.

it's a whole new dimension to your life and it's wonderful to have that dimension. secondly, get in touch with ****** some sound. create sound.

the voice

is the instrument we all play, and yet how many of us are

trained in using our voice? get trained. learn to sing.

learn to play an instrument. musicians have bigger brains. it's true.

you can do this in groups as well. it's a fantastic antidote to schizophonia. to make music and sound in a group of people, whichever style you enjoy particularly.

and let's take a

stewarding role for the sound around us. protect your ears? yes, absolutely.

design soundscapes to be beautiful around you at home and at work. and let's start to speak up when people are assailing us with the noise that i played you early on.

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尊敬的老师，亲爱的同学们：

大家好！

今天我发言的题目是《感恩在感恩中回报》。

落叶在湛蓝的空中盘旋，谱写着一曲感恩的乐章，那是大树对滋养它的大地的感恩；白云在蔚蓝的空中飘荡，绘画着一幅感恩的图画，那是白云对哺育它蓝天的感恩。因为人世间有了感恩才会有多*的社会，因为感恩我们才懂得了生命的真谛。从我们的呱呱落地到长大*，父母们花去了多少的心血和汗水，编织了多少个忙碌的日日夜夜。

父母的爱深沉而平凡，融入到我们生活的每一个角落。父母的爱是餐桌上热腾腾的牛奶和面包，是临出门前注意安全的一声声叮咛，是放学时探出窗口等待的眼神，是到家时嘘寒问暖后亲切的拥抱……父母的爱时时刻刻环绕在我们身边，我们就是这样洋溢在爱的海洋，幸福而快乐的生活着。没有惊天动地的壮举，但我们就是在这种“润物细无声”的关爱中茁壮成长起来的。

那一年，我得了一场大病住进了医院。那些日子里，爸爸妈妈跑前跑后，穿梭在医院各个科室之间。从爸爸妈妈那焦急的眼神？匆忙的身影中，我深深地体会到了爸爸妈妈对我发自内心的爱。冬天是寒冷的，但父母对我的照料无疑是我心中温暖的阳光。爸爸妈妈的关爱，撑起了我战胜病魔的勇气和信念，一个多星期后，我终于康复出院了。

*心在>中深情地写道：“母亲啊！你是荷叶，我是红莲，心中的雨点来了，除了你，谁是我在无遮拦天空下的隐蔽？”父母的爱永远都那样平凡，但对于我们却又如此的弥足珍贵。而我又能为他们做些什么呢？可能是每天回家早早就回响在楼道里报的一声平安，可能是父母疲惫时我给他们讲的一个脑筋急转弯，也可能是我给他们捶的'一次背，唱的一首歌，甚至不过是一句“谢谢”，但这对于父母显然已经足够了，他们只想给我们最好的，而从不期望回报。

“谁言寸草心，报得三春晖”，学会感恩，学会回报，感恩回报是并肩相存的。滴水之恩，当涌泉相报，共同努力，才会拥有更美好的明天。让我们怀着一颗感恩之心，去回报父母，回报亲朋，回报社会，你将发现自己是多么快乐。

学会感恩，你会发现，生活是何等的美好！

我的演讲完毕，谢谢大家！

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教育随笔：家有小女初演讲-好心情日记

从接到通知参加市里的演讲比赛起，时间很紧迫，班级选拔赛给孩子们准备的时间只有三天。一向积极参加各项活动的68名学生中，只有十人报名,大胆走上讲台展示个人的风采。丫头，作为班级选手中的一名，对这次演讲比赛似乎不那么热情。问及理由，她回答道：我怕忘词。我连连鼓励说：9岁那年你在千人礼堂献花献词那么从容，7岁入队仪式上发言那么大方，5岁在幼儿园当小主持人那么可爱一边说一边观察着小家伙的表情，微皱的眉头舒展开来，脸上漾起了一阵小幸福式的甜笑。

从写稿到背稿我一直督促着她，在完成课业之余还要背稿，丫头撅起小嘴，闹起意见。我鼓励她目标是班级夺冠，再参加学校选拔，争取代表学校去市里参赛。她连连吐着小舌头：妈妈，我的愿望就是----千万不拿第一，只拿第二。看着她那一本正经的样子，我没生气。只管激将了两句：好好好，不拿第一，只拿第二。好歹你也是班长，如果不用功背稿子，只怕第二都拿不到咯！呵呵！我若无其事地看着她，她立马说：切，我还拿不到第二，你等着吧！记忆力超好的丫头只用了一个小时的时间便背下了千字演讲稿。对于老妈我对她的语调手势的指点却显得有些不那么耐烦了。我这么忙，每天上课，辅导她学习，还有自己上公开课、撰写课题实验方案、报告等等诸多任务，再加这演讲大事，居然不好好准备。恼火！！我暗暗想，强忍住没发脾气。

班级赛当天，丫头表现不错，稿子流利，声音洪亮，仪态大方，有6位小评委的打分，她的分数排在了第一，顺利成为班级种子选手参加学校的选拔大赛。

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